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Playlist: Pride Month

Compiled By: PRX Editors

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Curated Playlist

Pride Month starts on Thursday June 01, 2023.

Below are picks chosen by PRX editorial staff.

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Supreme Court Oral Arguments from March 26, 2013

From PRX | 01:19:59

Raw, free audio from the Supreme Court case Hollingsworth v. Perry.

Gayrightslrg_small Original audio files and a PDF transcript can be found here on the Supreme Court's website.


Hour (49:00-1:00:00)

America Learn Your History: What Happened Before Stonewall

From PRX | 52:00

America, Learn Your History began as a popular Instagram series by composer and professor Bobby Wooten. Join us for our first radio special: Stonewall often gets credit for the beginning of the gay liberation movement. But their was an earlier riot, at Compton's Cafeteria in San Francisco, and it was started by a transwoman. Bobby's guests include actor Tituss Burgess and Dr. Susan Stryker, historian.

Alyh_logo_small "America, Learn Your History" began as a popular Instagram series by composer and professor Bobby Wooten. Join us for our first radio special: Stonewall often gets credit for the beginning of the gay liberation movement. But there was an earlier riot, at Compton's Cafeteria in San Francisco, and it was started by a transwoman. Bobby's guests include actor Tituss Burgess and historian Dr. Susan Stryker.

Ear Hustle Pride Month Special

From Ear Hustle | Part of the Ear Hustle Specials series | 52:00

Stories about LGBTQ life behind bars.

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In honor of Pride Month, the acclaimed podcast Ear Hustle serves up some of its best stories about the LGBTQ community inside prison, including: 

A love story set in the most unlikely place, out on the yard at San Quentin State Prison; two trans women on their journey from a men’s prison to a women’s prison thanks to a new California law. And the first ever pride parade held inside a Norwegian prison.

"A perfectly good body"—a conversation about transmasculine pregnancy

From Suki Wessling | Part of the The Babblery series | 59:00

The pregnancy and birth experiences of transgender men reveal questions that all of us should be asking about what it means to be the person who brings new life into this world.

Babblerylogosq_small What can the experiences of transgender men who choose to become biological parents tell us about pregnancy and childbirth in our society? Researcher and activist Vann Jones explores that question with interviewer Suki Wessling on The Babblery. In this episode, you'll first hear the background information on how transmasculine people view their gender and their bodies, and what choices they may or may not make regarding medical transition. Then we'll talk about the experiences that the men Vann researched had when they chose to become parents. Finally, we learn how the pregnancy and birth experiences of trans men shine a light on our preconceived notions of what it means to be "mom."

Transgender Experience: Musician, educator sings and talks about transition

From Out in the Bay - Queer Radio from San Francisco | 53:59

Hear and learn about the transgender experience from singer-songwriter Nick Lawrence, a family coach and former foster-parent educator on LGBTQ topics. His album "I Am A Man" is about his own transition.

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Hear about the transgender experience from singer-songwriter Nick Lawrence, a family coach and former foster-parent educator on LGBTQ topics. His latest album, I Am A Man, is about his own transition.

In our conversation, Nick dove deep into emotional and physical details, demystifying the transition process with passion, grace and a healthy dose of humor. (Note: the discussion includes graphic surgical details.)

We also hear three songs from I Am A Man, including “I’m Still Your Mother,” a soulful ballad about being estranged from his daughter because of his transition, and “Before (I Became a Man),” an upbeat celebratory number that starts with:

I’m looking in the mirror and liking what I see. I really don’t remember this happening to me, Before, before I became a man. I started loving myself right — just the way I am

Nick says his friends call him a changeling. “I was a daughter and a son. I was a mother and a father, I was a brother and a sister, I’ve been a grandma and a grandpa, a heterosexual woman, a bi woman, a lesbian, a straight guy, a bi guy and a gay guy.”

“I think I’ve hit all the stops,” he adds with a laugh. “Each one of those has its own realm of blessing and joy.”

Hear much more from Nick Lawrence on this special Out in the Bay hour.

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You can find Nick’s music on most streaming platforms by searching for “Nick Lawrence FTM.” He also has a children’s book – for parents too – called “I Am A Boy.” Find info on his website: https://nicklawrenceftm.com  

Peacemaking in LGBTQ Communities

From Good Radio Shows, Inc. | Part of the Peace Talks Radio: Weekly Hour Long Episodes series | 59:01

This time on PEACE TALKS RADIO, a three-part program about peacemaking in LGBTQ communities.

Coming out can lead to a sense of personal peace that many people spend their whole lives seeking. But coming out can sometimes bring about conflict with family, friends, and the larger society in which we live. On this month’s episode of Peace Talks Radio, correspondent Sarah Holtz speaks with three individuals who came out about their sexual orientation and gender identity and found their own personal peace. The three guests on today’s show represent an effort within the LGBTQ community to challenge accepted norms of gender identity and sexual orientation in order to envision a more inclusive world.

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This time on PEACE TALKS RADIO, a three-part program about peacemaking in LGBTQ communities.
Coming out can lead to a sense of personal peace that many people spend their whole lives seeking. But coming out can sometimes bring about conflict with family, friends, and the larger society in which we live. On this month’s episode of Peace Talks Radio, correspondent Sarah Holtz speaks with three individuals who came out about their sexual orientation and gender identity and found their own personal peace. They are now doing the difficult work of promoting peace and justice within and outside of their communities.
Whether we’re conscious of it or not, definitions of gender and sexuality surround us in daily life, from the symbols posted on restroom doors, to the families we see in advertisements. The three guests on today’s show represent an effort within the LGBTQ community to challenge accepted norms of gender identity and sexual orientation in order to envision a more inclusive world.
Our guests include Sierra Debrow, outreach coordinator for the Transilient Organization. and Anne-Marie Zanzal and Sally Michelle Jackson who both share their own coming out stories.

Dying Words: The AIDS Reporting of Jeffrey Schmalz

From Kerry Donahue | 53:59

Twenty-five years ago, New York Times reporter Jeffrey Schmalz ended up in the middle of one of the biggest stories of our time: He had AIDS. His writing about the disease changed journalism and himself.

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Dying Words, hosted by Rachel Maddow, is about Jeff Schmalz and the groundbreaking reporting he did on AIDS for the New York Times even as he was dying of the disease in the early 1990s. Through Jeff's story, it also describes the experiences of gay and lesbian journalists during a much less tolerant time in major news organizations.

Jeff Schmalz was a prodigiously talented, fast-rising editor at the New York Times - he stayed closeted from the newsroom management, especially A.M. "Abe" Rosenthal, a brilliant but homophobic executive editor. In late December 1990, Jeff had a seizure at his desk. He was soon diagnosed with AIDS - his T-cell count was two and he had PML, a AIDS related brain infection usually fatal within months. Astonishingly, Jeff responded well to AZT and was able to return to work within the year. When he did, he returned on a mission: to report and write a series of deeply felt articles about the human toll of the AIDS epidemic. He pushed the Times' boundaries and changed journalism. 

Jeff died in 1993, just a month before his 40th birthday, and over the years since then, Sam Freedman's own mission has been to preserve Jeff's story for posterity. That effort has taken the form of this public radio documentary and a companion book by the same name, published by CUNY Journalism Press, December 1, 2015. Sam Freedman is the author of seven non-fiction books, a former reporter for the New York Times, and an professor for more than two decades at the Columbia University Graduate School of Journalism. 

The documentary features archival audio from interviews with Jeff Schmalz by ABC News in the first half of 1993, as well as other archival materials provided by Jeff's sister, Wendy Schmalz including interviews with President Bill Clinton and Magic Johnson. Other key sources heard in the documentary include best-selling author Anna Quindlen, New Yorker writer Michael Spector, New York magazine editor Adam Moss, New York Times reporters Adam Nagourney and David Dunlap, former New York Times reporters Richard Meislin and Michael Norman, former New York Times News Editor Allan Siegal, AIDS activist Mary Fisher, journalist and historian Eric Marcus, and Jeff's sister Wendy Schmalz and her husband Michael Wilde.

Beyond Stonewall: From Power to Pride

From Open Source | Part of the Open Source with Christopher Lydon series | 59:00

A conversation with Gary Bailey, Larry Kessler, Sue Katz, Michael Bronski, Stephanie Burt, and Maura Healey about the LGBTQ movement, looking back 50 years to the Stonewall Uprising.

Screen_shot_2019-05-31_at_9 The Stonewall Uprising, fifty years ago, was chapter one in modern LGBTQ history. It was rough and ready in New York.  It was sexy and often celebratory in the San Francisco version. In Boston, true to character, gay struggle was thoughtful, wordy, networked, and momentous (in writing the first gay marriage law in 2004). Everywhere, the LGBTQ cause was older, wider, and deeper than we knew, in working classes and elites. Nineteenth-century Boston, after all, had put a name on the Boston Marriage of single ladies. Cruising culture was stratified—not the same on Boston Common as on the Public Garden, by the swan-boats. Gay or thought-to-be-gay politicians got reelected in Massachusetts, before a word was spoken. On this episode, a fresh look back.

Stonewall, fifty years ago, is a marker in modern memory—more nearly a million markers in conflicting memories. The Rashomon Effect is the rule post-Stonewall: no two eye-witnesses had seen the same event. Did the pitched battle in a mob-run gay bar in Manhattan, between fed-up patrons and city cops, really happen? Were women, black, and Latino militants in the forefront? Have any two people experienced the same Sexual Revolution over the last half-century? And was the effect of it all inclusion: to normalize once-forbidden behavior in gay marriage, for example? Or was the effect disruption and liberation: to radicalize all thinking about sex, gender, and society? The arguments are still alive, and they’re not all in New York. We’re digging up the Stonewall years and beyond in New England for this episode, with people who lived them in range of Boston.
 

A Different Kind of Coming Out: A 'Nancy' Pride Special

From [redacted] [redacted] | 58:59

Coming out means taking a risk and sharing something deeply personal with another person. In this hour-long episode of Nancy, the critically acclaimed podcast about the queer experience, hosts Tobin Low and Kathy Tu bring you three stories about different kinds of coming out.

Nancy_wnycstudios_3000_small Coming out means taking a risk and sharing something deeply personal with another person. In this hour-long episode of Nancy, the critically acclaimed podcast about the queer experience, hosts Tobin Low and Kathy Tu bring you three stories about different kinds of coming out. You'll hear from two gay men of different generations about what it's like to disclose their HIV status; a young woman who tracks down the queer role model she didn't know she needed; and a young man trying to save his father's life, even if it means a painful confrontation.

Trans in the Eyes of God (Series)

Produced by Interfaith Voices

A series exploring the spiritual lives of transgender people.

Most recent piece in this series:

Trans in the Eyes of God: Yvonne Taylor

From Interfaith Voices | Part of the Trans in the Eyes of God series | 59:00

24155527481_db64f29449_z_small In the Church of England, baptism can only happen once in a person’s lifetime. But what about transgender people, who have taken on a new name to conform to the gender with which they identify? Yvonne "Yve" Taylor, a 56-year-old transgender woman who lives in Exeter, loves her church but wants to be affirmed as the woman she is now – not the boy baptized by her family decades ago. “Keith in the physical sense is no longer with us. It’s Yvonne that lives, and Yvonne’s never been baptized,” she says.

From the floor debate at the 2017 General Synod that determined whether the church would accept this new liturgy, we hear two Church of England clergy – one who favored affirming transgender people in a new liturgy – and one who opposed it – explain their reasoning. As a gay person, the Rev. Christopher Newlands says he understands how transgender people need to be embraced within the church, and why their acceptance needs to be “explicit.” Dr. Ian Paul calls the vote on the liturgy “a shame,” and argues that it was a pastoral response to an issue with theological, scientific and psychological dimensions that have yet to be fully explored.

Guest hosted by Rev. David Wynn. This series is made possible by the Arcus Foundation. 

Pride outLoud

From outLoud Radio at Youth Radio | 59:00

From Sex Ed to vampires, stories on LGBT topics from youth producers.

Imgp0207_small The youth producers of outLoud Radio bring you an hour of stories about lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and otherwise non-straight life.


Half-Hour (24:00-30:00)

Grandma inspired first lesbian Calif. Supreme Court Justice

From Out in the Bay - Queer Radio from San Francisco | 29:30

California Supreme Court Associate Justice Kelli Evans, the first out lesbian on the state's high court, was raised by her grandmother in public housing. She buried her U.C. Davis law degree original with her grandmother because of her grandma's "deliberate, intentional actions to make sure we had opportunities that she was denied.”

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As a young girl, future Supreme Court of California Associate Justice Kelli Evans was more excited about the bookmobile coming through her Denver neighborhood than the ice cream truck.

“I was a voracious reader,” the first out lesbian on California’s highest court told Out in the Bay Queer Radio + Podcast. Evans says she read an entire set of encyclopedias from A-Z and again from Z-A bought for her by her grandmother, who “probably paid a usurious amount” for them, along with countless more books while a child.

Sworn in January 2, 2023, Evans joined Associate Justice Martin Jenkins as the second out LGBTQ person on the state’s high court. Jenkins, a gay man who joined the high court in late 2020, spoke with Out in the Bay in 2021. They are both Black.

At her swearing-in ceremony, Governor Gavin Newsom noted that Evans was raised by her grandmother and highlighted that she was raised in public housing.

“I understand what it’s like to live in poverty. I understand what it’s like to be raised by a single parent – by a grandparent. I have a perspective and an experience that not a lot of lawyers have, not a lot of judges have,” Evans told Out in the Bay.

“I think that may have stood out to the governor,” said Evans, as well his recognition “that there are lots of brilliant, extremely hard-working, ingenious poor people.”

Evans said she buried her original U.C. Davis law degree original with her grandmother “because it belonged to her.” Evans said she and her family members are “direct manifestations of her [grandmother’s] deliberate, intentional actions to make sure we had opportunities that she was denied.”

She knew she wanted to be a lawyer from the age of 6 or 7.  “I used to watch ‘Perry Mason’ with my grandmother. I don’t know if that was the spark or not, but in my child mind I thought being a lawyer had something to do with fairness.  And lawyers got to argue! Maybe I was an argumentative child, I don’t know.”

But Evans did know at that young age that her grandma, other relatives, friends and neighbors were “incredibly smart, incredibly funny, incredibly hard-working, [yet] didn’t have the opportunities or creature comforts that I saw on TV and in movies and that so many other people in society had.” The inequality “didn’t sit right” with her, so she aimed to do something about it.

Find information on the Supreme Court of California and upcoming cases on its website, https://www.courts.ca.gov.

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The Future of the AIDS Memorial Quilt

From KSFP | Part of the Civic series | 29:30

The AIDS Memorial Quilt is displayed in San Francisco. "Civic" hears from activists and officials about future plans for combating AIDS.

Civic_skyline_square_with_headroom-01_small The largest display of the AIDS Memorial Quilt in ten years took place in San Francisco's Golden Gate Park in June. Now the quilt is being taken on the road to the southern U.S., where new HIV infections and lower levels of treatment for those infected are the highest in the country. We also speak with the White House official overseeing the Biden Administration’s response to the pandemic, after resources for HIV care were diverted to battling the COVID pandemic.

Fugitive Waves: The Making of the Homobile: A Story of Transportation, Civil Rights & Glitter ( and further stories of making...)

From The Kitchen Sisters | Part of the Fugitive Waves series | 21:17

In this episode of Fugitive Waves, The Kitchen Sisters ride the nightshift with The Homobile. Homobiles is a non-commercial, volunteer, 24/7 ride service created by Lynnee Breedlove for the "LGBTQRXT and transgender community and others around San Francisco who feel the need for safe, dependable rides, outside traditional services. "Moes getting hoes where they needs to goes," is their motto. Homobiles is for people who feel at risk because they don't conform to sexual or gender norms and have been targets of rudeness or shame or violence, says Lynne. Homobiles is a network of independent drivers who pilot their own cars, a non-profit organization that caters to this underserved, and sometimes harassed community in the Bay Area. This community car service operates on donations. No one is turned away for lack of funds. Homobiles has been called "Uber for Drag Queens," but with a mission that is social, not financial.

Homobile_small In this episode of Fugitive Waves, The Kitchen Sisters ride the nightshift with The Homobile. Homobiles is a non-commercial, volunteer, 24/7 ride service created by Lynnee Breedlove for the "LGBTQRXT and transgender community and others around San Francisco who feel the need for safe, dependable rides, outside traditional services. "Moes getting hoes where they needs to goes," is their motto. Homobiles is for people who feel at risk because they don't conform to sexual or gender norms and have been targets of rudeness or shame or violence, says Lynne. Homobiles is a network of independent drivers who pilot their own cars, a non-profit organization that caters to this underserved, and sometimes harassed community in the Bay Area. This community car service operates on donations. No one is turned away for lack of funds. Homobiles has been called "Uber for Drag Queens," but with a mission that is social, not financial.

Peacemaking in LGBTQ Communities

From Good Radio Shows, Inc. | Part of the Peace Talks Radio: Weekly Half Hour Episodes series | 29:00

NOTE: THIS PROGRAM IS ALSO AVAILABLE IN A 59:00 VERSION.

https://exchange.prx.org/pieces/279226-peacemaking-in-lgbtq-communities

This time on PEACE TALKS RADIO, a three-part program about peacemaking in LGBTQ communities.

Coming out can lead to a sense of personal peace that many people spend their whole lives seeking. But coming out can sometimes bring about conflict with family, friends, and the larger society in which we live. On this month’s episode of Peace Talks Radio, correspondent Sarah Holtz speaks with three individuals who came out about their sexual orientation and gender identity and found their own personal peace. The three guests on today’s show represent an effort within the LGBTQ community to challenge accepted norms of gender identity and sexual orientation in order to envision a more inclusive world.

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This time on PEACE TALKS RADIO, a three-part program about peacemaking in LGBTQ communities.
Coming out can lead to a sense of personal peace that many people spend their whole lives seeking. But coming out can sometimes bring about conflict with family, friends, and the larger society in which we live. On this month’s episode of Peace Talks Radio, correspondent Sarah Holtz speaks with three individuals who came out about their sexual orientation and gender identity and found their own personal peace. They are now doing the difficult work of promoting peace and justice within and outside of their communities.
Whether we’re conscious of it or not, definitions of gender and sexuality surround us in daily life, from the symbols posted on restroom doors, to the families we see in advertisements. The three guests on today’s show represent an effort within the LGBTQ community to challenge accepted norms of gender identity and sexual orientation in order to envision a more inclusive world.
Our guests include Sierra Debrow, outreach coordinator for the Transilient Organization. and Anne-Marie Zanzal and Sally Michelle Jackson who both share their own coming out stories.

Finding Miles

From Sarah P. Reynolds | 27:11

Miles was born in the wrong body. He was born Megan and after 15 years of serious depression and confusion about his place in the world, at age 28, he decided to do something about it. He chose the name Miles and began his slow and difficult transition into manhood. He brought an audio recorder with him. This is his story.

1984-4-13_megan_swing_small Miles was born in the wrong body.   He was born Megan and after 15 years of serious depression and confusion about his place in the world, at age 28, he decided to do something about it.  He chose the name Miles and began his slow and difficult transition into manhood.  He brought an audio recorder with him.  This is his story.

Featured on Transom.org.  For more information and conversation, visit "Finding Miles" on Transom.org.

Surviving Ex-Gay Therapy

From Making Contact | Part of the Making Contact series | 29:00

The growth of the ex-gay movement in the last two decades gave rise to hundreds of therapy programs aiming to change people’s sexual orientation. But there’s another growing movement, led by survivors of ex-gay therapy, to disprove and ban ex-gay therapy.

Mc_podcast_logo_300dpi-01_small The growth of the ex-gay movement in the last two decades gave rise to hundreds of therapy programs aiming to change people’s sexual orientation. Many were explicitly religious, and claimed to be able to “pray away the gay”. But there’s a growing movement, led by survivors of ex-gay therapy, to disprove and ban these harmful practices for good. On this edition, stories of recovery from conversion therapy, and becoming ex- ex-gay.

Special Thanks to Robert Frazier of Monitor Studios and Terry Gildea of KUER.


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Life of the Law #29 - Best of LIVE LAW 3 "Love and the Law"

From Life of the Law | Part of the Life of the Law series | 17:26

What’s love got to do with the law? Then again, what’s the law got to do with falling in love? From coast to coast, Life of the Law occasionally takes to the stage with LIVE LAW to present true, first-person stories about how the law shapes and transforms lives.

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What’s love got to do with the law? Then again, what’s the law got to do with falling in love? From coast to coast, Life of the Law occasionally takes to the stage with LIVE LAW to present true, first-person stories about how the law shapes and transforms lives.

Our most recent LIVE LAW 3 event in San Francisco took on the theme of LOVE and the Law, and our first storyteller was Mark Leno, a state Senator in California. Ten years ago, Leno made the decision to fight “a war over a word.”

Jim Brosnahan is a senior trial attorney at Morrison and Forester, and says the law has absolutely nothing and everything to do with falling in love. For Brosnahan, it all began with a dinner more than fifty years ago.

Extra special thanks to LIVE LAW 3′s host, Snap Judgment’s Glynn Washington.LIVE LAW 4 is coming to Minneapolis’s Bryan-Lake Bowl on May 31st.Have a story idea? Email our producer Mary Adkins at mary.adkins@lifeofthelaw.org .

Gay Voice

From The Organist | 12:26

Thomas Rogers on the origins of the gay male voice.

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There were ghosts everywhere: AIDS in Provincetown

From Sarah Yahm | 12:13

Provincetown is both a gay vacation mecca and a small fishing village on the tip of Cape Cod. This piece examines the way AIDS affected this unique small town in the '80s and '90s.

Provincetowneastend_small From Memorial Day to Labor Day Provincetown Massachusetts is one of the world's largest and most well known gay vacation meccas.  This small fishing village is festooned with pride flags, drag queens, and gay couples of all ages holding hands and ice cream cones.  But in the late 80's and 90's, while the party continued, 10 percent of Provincetown's year round population was dying of AIDS. And most of the remaining 90 percent were tending to them. This piece is about what it was like to live and die in this small town in the midst of this epidemic and the surreal mix of celebration and devastation.  

The Boundaries of Love in the Holy Land

From Bending Borders | Part of the Love is Complicated series | 12:18

It is rare for an Israeli and a Palestinian to fall in love. There are physical barriers, as Israelis can’t enter Palestinian areas, and Palestinians can’t enter Israeli areas, without special permits. There are also cultural barriers, of course. But a year ago, two 29-year-old men - one from Jerusalem, the other from a West Bank village - met one another and demonstrated that sometimes love can be found. Reporter Daniel Estrin brings us their story.

Boundariesoflove_small This production is part of the Global Story Project, with support from the Open Society Foundations. Presented by PRX, the Public Radio Exchange.

Bon Voyage

From Julia Scott | 23:00

Paul Perkovic and his husband, Eric Trefelner, have lived in style for 36 years. When they find out that Paul has inoperable pancreatic cancer, they decide he should go out in style, too. Bon Voyage brings the listener along on the intimate, emotional journey of a same-sex couple coping with mortality.

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RAVE REVIEW: The Guardian calls BON VOYAGE "Vivid and beautifully told
... A tremendous listen: you felt as if you knew both subjects within moments, and got an insight into the hardest moments a relationship will face."


Paul Perkovic and his husband, Eric Trefelner, have lived in style for 36 years. When they find out that Paul has inoperable pancreatic cancer, they decide he should go out in style, too. Eric plans a lavish, quarter million-dollar "Bon Voyage" party at a fine arts museum in San Francisco. Paul and Eric aren't just planning a party; they're trying to choreograph a death. But when relationship breakdowns developm that neither man expects, the couple discovers that death has its own agenda. BON VOYAGE brings the listener along on the intimate, emotional journey of a same-sex couple coping with mortality.

STORY UPDATE : Paul Perkovic died November 26, 2012, in Eric Trefelner's arms at their home in Montara, Calif.

PRODUCER Julia Scott is an award-winning radio producer, journalist and essayist based in San Francisco. She produces documentaries and news features for several nationally syndicated programs. Her previous work is archived at www.juliascott.net .

EXECUTIVE PRODUCER Anne Donohue is Associate Professor of Journalism at Boston University. She was the special projects editor at Monitor Radio for five years, and has also been a contributor to NPR, the BBC, WGBH, WBUR and other public radio programs.

BON VOYAGE is part of Real America, a series from the BBC World Service that enlisted four American producers to tell stories found only in America.

Gay in the Eyes of God: A 21-Part Series (Series)

Produced by Interfaith Voices

(Includes pieces of various lengths. See also the hour-long special above.) Open any Torah, Bible or Koran, and the passages about homosexuality seem clear: being gay is an abomination; a sin; something that incurs the wrath of God. But for many, these interpretations are changing.

"Gay in the Eyes of God" is a special production of Interfaith Voices, the leading religion news magazine on public radio. It explores the ways in which the major American religious traditions (Christianity, Judaism and Islam) grapple with acceptance of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people.

Most recent piece in this series:

Gay in the Eyes of God: An Hour-Long Special

From Interfaith Voices | Part of the Gay in the Eyes of God: A 21-Part Series series | 59:00

Rainbowflagedit_creative_commons_ludovic_bertron_small Open any Torah, Bible or Koran, and the passages about homosexuality seem clear: being gay is an abomination; a sin; something that incurs the wrath of God. But for some, these interpretations are changing.

"Gay in the Eyes of God" is a special production of Interfaith Voices, the leading religion news magazine on public radio. It explores the ways in which the major American religious traditions (Christianity, Judaism and Islam) grapple with acceptance of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people.

We present personal stories as well as interpretations of scripture and theology - both traditional and progressive. The series features stories from:

•       Celestine and Hilary - a Catholic couple where one partner is transgender
•       A Catholic lesbian who decides the only way to be faithful is to be celibate
•       Gay and lesbian Orthodox Jews in Brooklyn
•       An Orthodox rabbi who defends tradition
•       An openly gay imam who leads a welcoming service in a Washington, DC mosque
•       An African-American Christian woman who struggles with her father over being a lesbian

"Gay in the Eyes of God" comes an important time, as the Supreme Court takes up the Defense of Marriage Act and Proposition 8, and the nation becomes more accepting of LGBT people. Still, the country is divided, and our series reflects many different views on this issue.

This special features some of the best interviews from our 21-part series on this topic .

Made with the support of the Arcus Foundation.

Voices: A Palestinian Lesbian's Story

From Radio Netherlands Worldwide | Part of the RN Focus on Torn Lives - Stories from the Holy Land series | 11:58

The story of Cindy, a Palestinian lesbian living in Israel.

2004092804_small Cindy is a 26-year-old Palestinian who lives in Israel. She and a dozen other Moslem women have set up a lesbian group, called Aswat or Voices. Its goal is to provide support to Palestinian and Arab-Israeli lesbians and to try to overcome some of the taboos regarding homosexuality. For more information, contact joan@schardtmedia.org

Standing Up To 377

From Abbie Fentress Swanson | 09:40

A documentary examining the politics of homosexuality in India.

Standing_up_to_377_small Some 50 million gay men and women living in India were technically illegal up until June 2009. That's when Section 377 of India's Penal Code, a British colonial law which had barred "unnatural" sex, was overturned. This documentary looks at the movement of gay Indian activists that helped change the law and the winning petition they filed with Delhi's High Court that moved the government to change Section 377.

Characters and scenes in the documentary include Section 377 activist Gautam Bhan; two counselors working at a lesbian helpline in Delhi; a Chennai sex worker who talks about how he was forced to marry his niece despite being gay; and a drag show at a men's health center in Mumbai that shows the increased visibility of the gay rights movement. The documentary also includes an interview from a conservative member of Parliament in India who says homosexuality doesn't exist.

Gay and Lesbian Muslims, On a "Jihad" For Love

From Interfaith Voices | 12:00

An interview with Parvez Sharma, director of "A Jihad For Love," and Muhsin Hendricks, a subject of the film. From Interfaith Voices.

Ajihadforlove_small Host Intro: A short passage in the Koran, along with a handful of quotes attributed to the prophet Muhammed, condemn homosexuality as a crime in the eyes of many Islamic scholars. Punishments range from whippings, prison time or even death by stoning. A new documentary called "A Jihad for Love" tells the stories of more than a dozen gay and lesbian Muslims from around the world...all of whom stay devoted to a faith that doesn't seem to want them. Laura Kwerel explains. Outro: "A Jihad For Love" is playing in select theaters now through September.

Amanda's Diary: Girlfriend

From Radio Diaries | Part of the Teenage Diaries series | 21:30

Amanda's family is Catholic. Amanda is bisexual. And she's having a hard time getting her parents to understand that this is not just a phase.

Td_amanda_001_l_small Amanda's family is Catholic. Amanda is bisexual. And she's having a hard time getting her parents to understand that this is not just a phase. "When I was in the first grade, I remember one day we were playing a game that was kind of like Sleeping Beauty where like the prettiest girl on the block fell asleep on a picnic bench. And you know, somebody had to go and wake her up, to like, kiss her and revive her and it would always be one of the boys. And I always felt like I wanted to go and revive her."

This story is part of the Teenage Diaries series  produced by Radio Diaries for NPR. Since 1996, Executive Producer Joe Richman has been giving tape recorders to young people around the country to document their lives. In December of 2012, Radio Diaries will revisit five of the original diarists 16 years after their first recordings. The series is broadcast on NPR's All Things Considered.

How Are You Who You Are?

From Eric Winick | 21:13

A unique story about the complexity of human character and the tenacity of love in the face of unpredictable health challenges and unexpected gender-bending.

62003_small In 1995, Douglas A. Nadeau of Marblehead, Massachusetts underwent a pallidotomy at Mass. General Hospital, an operation designed to eradicate neurons in his brain that no longer responded to dopamine, the naturally-created chemical that facilitates movement. Nine years earlier, while on a business trip, Doug had been bitten by an insect and developed strange Parkinsonian symptoms, such as the inability to keep his eyes open while talking. These caused numerous problems for Doug, a high-powered corporate lawyer in Boston. Over time, the symptoms worsened until Doug lost his mobility at night and was reduced to a hospital bed. Following the procedure, in which Doug practically walked off the operating table, he found he was unable to inhibit certain antisocial tendencies that, prior to the surgery, he'd kept repressed. To make matters worse, his surgery turned out to be a failure, and his symptoms returned one by one. The next nine years tested the boundaries and limits of love, marriage, and tolerance, both within the family and in the Nadeaus' wide circle of friends and acquaintances.


Cutaways (5:00-8:59)

Small Town Pride

From Jennifer Jerrett | 05:07

Red state, rural America isn't exactly the first place that pops into your mind when you think about pioneering LGTBQ pride movements.

8739513831_e847a858d0_n_small Moab, Utah, a little town in the southeast corner of the state, isn't the likeliest of places for a burgeoning LGBTQ pride movement. But the Moab Pride Festival, established in 2011, calls itself "...the nation's second largest small town Pride Festival." In these places, where everyone knows everyone, it can be hard to stand up for something you believe in -- something that makes you different -- but maybe it's exactly these hometowns that have the best shot at pioneering a community-driven atmosphere of tolerance and understanding.

Fighting Homophobia in the Classroom

From Anny Celsi | 06:06

Teens in Los Angeles use live theater to battle homophobia in the classroom.

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The death of Laurence King – killed by a junior high classmate in Oxnard, California in 2008 – highlights a big problem: If you're a teacher, how should you deal with homophobia in the classroom? One group is using theater to teach teachers how to counteract sexual bias in Southern California classrooms.

The program is put on by Encompass, a non-profit group that focuses on diversity issues in California schools. The actors are students from the LA County High School for the arts.

According to the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network, by the time they get to high school, ninety percent of lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgendered students have experienced physical, verbal or sexual harassment at school. Those students are more likely to skip school out of fear, don’t do as well academically as their straight peers, and are less likely to graduate.

In the training, educators watch a scene where homophobic behavior disrupts a classroom and creates stress.  The observers are given insight into the students' inner lives and how they're affected by sexual bias. They're then asked to come up with techniques the teacher might use to make the classroom safer and more inclusive.  The scene is repeated, with the actors using improv to act out the new strategies.  With the teacher in control, things play out differently this time - the bullies dial back their behavior, the name-calling and hate-speech is squelched, and the students are free to focus on their lesson.

Student actor Drew Cameron says, “hopefully teachers are watching this and thinking, here’s some students that are putting on a scene for us. Here are some students who are showing us how to be better teachers. “

… better teachers in a school where every student feels safe to focus on the job of learning.

Trans-Identities: A Community Comes Out in Western New England (Series)

Produced by Tina Antolini

When you look at someone, a stranger at the library, on the street, what's the first thing you notice? Often, it's their gender. For some people, though, gender isn't so easily divided into one category or the other. This series profiles the personal stories of transgender residents of Western New England, and their civil rights efforts.

Most recent piece in this series:

Trans-Identites Part 3: Legislating Civil Rights

From Tina Antolini | Part of the Trans-Identities: A Community Comes Out in Western New England series | 06:35

Transpridemarchersinnorthamptonmajune2008_small More than one bill languished in Massachusetts last legislative session, including a bill that would have added "gender identity and gender expression" to the state's anti-discrimination and hate crimes laws. The bill is aimed at protecting people who identify with a gender other than the one on their birth certificate. The transgender community maintains that current laws regarding sexual orientation don't protect them. Legislation providing similar protections in Connecticut passed the senate, but didn't clear the house. In the final part of a series on the region's transgender community, Tina Antolini reports on the debate over these bills, and why advocates think they stalled in the legislature

James Roberts

From Rachel Falcone | Part of the Housing is a Human Right Storytelling Project Vol. 1 series | 08:10

James Roberts shares his journey trying to save his ailing partner William, who has HIV, and their home together. Full piece includes story with intro and outro.

James_williams-0530_small “I’m not his husband, I’m not his wife, I’m not his brother, I’m not his mother, who am I?…I’m everything to him.” James Roberts

James Roberts is forced to resign from a lucrative job on Wall Street to care for his ailing partner William, who has HIV. James talks about his struggle to save both William and their home together, as William’s health gets progressively worse.

In the full piece, the intro is a rythmic mix of different voices from the Housing is a Human Right Storytelling project. The outro is a description of the project with information about how to participate by Creator and Co-Producer Michael Premo.

It's An Accomplishment

From Salt Institute for Documentary Studies | 08:47

"Kyle," a FTM transgender 14-year-old, desperately wants to tell his classmates and peers that he was born a girl.

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Producer Jen Telischak has the story of a critical moment in the life of "Kyle," a FTM transgender 14-year-old who desperately wants to tell his classmates and peers that he was born a girl.  His mom, Susan, doesn't think this is a good idea and wants Kyle to wait until he's older.  A snapshot that encompasses a moment of change.

I'm Relatively Human

From Salt Institute for Documentary Studies | 07:47

Marty Hagglund had it all. He had a loving wife, a beautiful home, and a great job. Then, Marty threw it all to the wind to realize a deep-seated, life-long desire––become a woman. From Selena Simmons-Duffin of the Salt Institute for Documentary Studies.

Marty2_small Marty Hagglund had it all. He had a loving wife, a beautiful home, and a great job. Then, Marty threw it all to the wind to realize a deep-seated, life-long desire — to become a woman. Her story is not about transitioning between genders. It’s about what happens after you’ve arrived at your destination, and are forced to consider what you gained, and what you lost.

Remember the Upstairs Lounge

From Julia Botero | 06:09

One evening in the summer of 1973, an arsonist set the Upstairs Lounge on fire. The piece brings attention to a forgotten tragedy, an act of courage that helped to galvanize the gay community, and the work of an emerging artist dedicated to reinterpreting and retelling New Orleans gay history. From Julia Botero.

01_small Local artist Skylar Fein is fascinated by New Orlean's gay cultural history. For the art biennial Prospect One which closed this past month, Skylar paid homage to the memory of a gay bar in the French Quarter.

One evening in the summer of 1973, an arsonist set the Upstairs Lounge on fire. Most of the bar's regulars, including many friends and lovers, died that night. In an installation, Skylar recreated the inside of The Upstairs Lounge.

The piece brings attention to a forgotten tragedy, an act of courage that helped to galvanize the gay community, and the work of an emerging artist dedicated to reinterpreting and retelling New Orleans gay history.

Riot Boy

From outLoud Radio at Youth Radio | 06:16

One boy's unlikely connection with the music of northwest feminists. A hero's journey of self-discovery (sifting through Riot Grrrl records in his mom's attic). Features killer tracks from Sleater-Kinney and Bikini Kill, and compelling interviews with original Riot Grrrls. From Diego Ruiz of outLoud Radio.

Diegoyeebfacepic_small A hero's journey of self-discovery (sifting through Riot Grrrl records in his mom's attic). Features killer tracks from Sleater-Kinney and Bikini Kill, and compelling interviews with original Riot Grrrls.

Dia's Diary: My Mother

From outLoud Radio at Youth Radio | 06:08

Many transgender people come out as gay first. Dia Fallana is a young transgender woman living in a poor part of Oakland, California. In this page from her audio diary, she tells the story of how her mother's anti-gay attitude kept her in the closet -- until she was forced to tell the truth. From outLoud Radio.

Default-piece-image-1 Many transgender people come out as gay first. Dia Fallana is a young transgender woman living in a poor part of Oakland, California. In this page from her audio diary, she tells the story of how her mother's anti-gay attitude kept her in the closet -- until she was forced to tell the truth.


Drop-Ins (2:00-4:59)

Hard Boiled Eggs

From The Heart | Part of the Tender Moments series | 04:30

A story of an unlikely pair brought together by gender and technology.

Audio_smut_square_logo_600x600-white_on_grey_small Beta is intersex. Which means she doesn't fit squarely into either gender, in a biological sense. Most intersex babies are assigned a gender at birth and undergo surgery. She didn't find out until her 20s, which caused great confusion for her growing up. Cary's story is almost exactly the same---born intersex, assigned a gender that didn't really fit, found out much later in life. Cary and Beta were living 1000 miles apart when they met on Second Life. After a life time of being a very different type of different, they each found someone with whom they could truly relate.

While Audio Smut's "Tender Moments" are in full compliance with FCC regulations, they do openly engage with the topic of sexuality and gender.

M4M

From Salt Institute for Documentary Studies | 05:57

With the legalization of same-sex marriage in Maine, Barton Girdwood got to wondering, what about all the gay men in Maine who never found love?

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With the legalization of same-sex marriage in Maine, Barton Girdwood got to wondering, what about all the gay men in Maine who never found love? What does this matter to them? And at 22, Barton drove up to Northport, Maine to meet Bob, who Barton hoped could answer a universal question: what happens if you don't find love? 

Best Couple

From Radio Rookies | 04:48

When seniors at a small public high school in the Bronx cast their votes for "Best Couple" they chose a pair they admire but who definitely defy the stereotype of best couple.

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Vikkydeoine_prom09_small When seniors at a small public high school in the Bronx cast their votes for "Best Couple" they chose a pair they admire but who definitely defy the stereotype of best couple.

Changing Roles and Rules

From Amy Gastelum | 05:01

Stef Adkins competes in his very first Drag Competition as Barbie Que, juggling issues of identity and boundaries.

Default-piece-image-2 In his twenties, Stef Adkins was in drag a lot. So much so that in the small town of Provincetown, MA his friends and neighbors always called him by his drag name, Crystal Queer, even when he was his male self. Stef got frustrated and quit doing drag. A few years later, he decided to do drag again as Barbie Que but has been carefully avoiding too much time and attention dressed as Barbie, afraid that becoming more public in his drag persona might cause Stef to be forgotten again.

But the rare lip sync act at benefit dinners wasn't satisfying his need to be glamorous. Last April, at 38, Stef decided he was ready to become more public with Barbie Que and he entered the Miss Gay Massachusetts Drag Pageant for the first time, risking losing himself again.

Dear First Grade Teacher by AJ Tran

From WBEZ | Part of the Louder Than a Bomb 2012 series | 02:38

Poet AJ Tran, 18, is a senior at Northside College Prep. "Dear First Grade Teacher" is AJ's poetic commentary on gender, how our society teaches young children what 'girls' can do and what 'boys' can do, without leaving enough room for those who may think otherwise.

Ltab2012_aj_small Poet AJ Tran, 18, is a senior at Northside College Prep. This is the second year she has represented her school at Louder Than a Bomb, which advanced to the Final round of competition in the 2012 Festival. Dear First Grade Teacher is AJ's poetic commentary on gender, how our society teaches young children what 'girls' can do and what 'boys' can do, without leaving enough room for those who may think otherwise.

Rosie by Essie Lindzy

From WBEZ | Part of the Louder Than a Bomb 2012 series | 03:08

Poet Essie Lindzy, 18, is a senior at Whitney M. Young Magnet High School. "Rosie" recants the poet's experience with society's perception of the African-American lesbian community and the expectations placed on all women.

Ltab2012_essie_small Poet Essie Lindzy, 18, is a senior at Whitney M. Young Magnet High School. This is her second year participating in Louder Than a Bomb. Rosie recants the poet's experience with society's perception of the African-American lesbian community and the expectations placed on all women.