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Produced by Jon Kalish

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Summary: Interviews with Gray and those who knew him, as well as excerpts from one of his performances.
 

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I felt somewhat healed by this piece. Even now I am so devastated by Spalding Gray's death. His voice was so essential, so much a part of our existence. No one will ever take his place. No one will ever adequately represent the art form he so brilliantly exploited. There are now, simply put, no monologuists. He was the end of an era. Thank you, Spalding. Thank you for your exquisite art. We will always be in your debt.

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Storyteller Spalding Gray killed himself in 2004 by jumping off the Staten Island ferry. Best known for the monologue and movie "Swimming to Cambodia," this documentary focuses on the period of Gray's life after a life-threatening car accident. Using audio from his one-man performances and several personal interviews, New York City producer Jon Kalish presents a portrait of Gray's personal struggles and work, which many people believed were the same. "He questions everything and ends up more exhausted than satisfied," wrote Michael Kuchwara, the Associated Press drama critic. To do that, Gray dwelled on yesterday's troubles. "One of the hells that I suffer is that I live in the past a lot of the time," he says at one point in the documentary. The strongest moment of this piece is Kalish's conversation with Gray near the end of his life. The actor sounds unhinged as the pair stroll around the grounds of a college campus. The only downside to this doc are the time references (there's a reference to January, which might make the listener believe Gray died recently, not in 2004) and a mid-documentary reference to the radio station on which the piece originally aired.

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"One of the hells I suffer is that I am in the past a lot of the time because I don’t have boundaries. Because if the past is fuel for your stories, then you’re not going to draw boundaries on what part of the past you want to go to – that’s the painful part for me... ...it’s having to let that stuff flood in."

This little moment, a bit buried in the piece, speaks volumes about Spalding Gray, his work and why many who are drawn to him, are drawn to him. The value Spalding put on raw emotion and re-feeling events is remarkable and rare in this world. Most of us prefer to put the past far behind us because we can’t risk the pain we may feel. It is the rare few, like Spalding Gray, who cannot do that. And that is truly a great gift to the rest of us.

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My only qualm with this piece is that the information presented in the very first sentences is innaccurate. The announcer tells us that Gray's body was found in January and that he apparently jumped from the ferry serveral months earlier. In fact, Gray disappeared in January and was found in March.

That said, I think the piece ended beautifully, poignantly; so painful to hear.

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I have a feeling that most people who knew about Spaulding Gray - as audience members, etc. (and I think there are alot of us! Even Marge Simpson!) - reacted to the events that surrounded his unusual death with that special feeling of loss you get for a friend you didn't get a chance to know. You wanted to know more about what happened - much more to the point than the New York Times was ever going to tell you. This piece delivers that - and I have to say that this is really wonderful tape for the producers to have. They've done a lovely, sensitive job of sharing it and I'm grateful.

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In "A Tribute to Spalding Gray", Jon Kalish invites listeners into the Gray Club with a triple decker of personal interviews (where Kalish is conversationally present) seminar presentations, and Gray's trademark monologs.

The radio is very, very good to Spalding Gray, whose live performance scenery depends upon only his plaid shirt, plain table and chair, and glass of water. Little is lost when his monologs are brought from the theatre or cinema to the ether, and spoken word is superior to the print versions of his work.

Spalding Gray has a high quotient of fans among public radio listeners, perhaps because his startling honesty is met in kind by the directness of the medium. That honesty has a harder edge in this later material, where Cambodian joints are replaced by Irish fractures.

Next thing I knew I was lying in the street completely covered in blood, Kathy writhing next to me crying, "I'm dying I'm dying." And I said, "But I can't straighten my leg." [And] there was cow medicine everywhere -- it was a local veterinarian [who crashed into us.]"

Selling his house for money reminds Gray of his father, and what subsequently happened to his mother. "That's what led to her madness. So it's not my story I hope."

But it is. This tribute captures not only the brilliance and spark but also the descending trajectory of Gray's shooting star.

Kalish ends with a personal goodbye, which fits the acolytic style of the piece, really a remembrance in Gray's own voice, just as his performances really comprised a series of his lives, remembered.

[Production note: 15:05 -15:18 = Station ID to KCRW, which must be stripped for rebroadcast, which we hope for, broadly. -gb]

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This review is colored by the fact that I am a Spalding Gray fan. That said, I found this to be an effecting, enlightening, entertaining half-hour that gave me insight into Gray's fragile state of mind in the last couple years of his life. To hear his final monologue recorded in Seattle - a work in progress about his debilitating accident in Ireland - was a treat. Even though he was clearly on a slippery slope toward his demise, he was able, again, to blend warm humor and human feeling into the detail of his personal challenge. Certainly in retrospect, the interviews Kalish captured with Gray in his last year give us a broad hint that he was not long for this world. One of the other guests interviewed said it right - there WAS something about Spalding that connected with people that made him unique. I highly recommend this piece.