Do relationships tend to get violent? In deep relationships, it could start off as being protected, believing that you are safe, giving your trust and love to your so-called mate. Many people especially females who are in deep relationships, tend to stay with them and deal with the hardships and violence that come their way. It is hard for females to get out of this situation because their mate might get violent and threaten if they leave him. These types of relationships can turn physically and mentally and it could be both sexes that can be controlling. Abusive relationships are hard to get away from. Many girls have dealt with these situations, but do not have options of leaving this situation. Such violence can lead to many sorts of outcomes. I applaud them for telling about this difficult topic to the community.